Wanderlust Part 5: Salzburg and Vienna

Get caught up on the journey!
Wanderlust Part 1: Hong Kong and London
Wanderlust Part 2: Paris, Swiss Alps
Wanderlust Part 3: Florence and Rome
Wanderlust Part 4: Rome to Venice

Day 14: January 7th, Venice to Salzburg

Another long drive day means another early start. I think I’m the only one not bothered by this. Today on the bus, most people are wearing their new Topdeck hoodies, and others are lamenting over their clothes being ruined by the laundry service. But I have other things on my mind. The next destination holds very special meaning to me.

January 7 is a very important day. It marks eight years since my beloved Grandma, Judy, left this world following a long battle with polio and Multiple Sclerosis. I was seventeen at the time. The last thing she and I did together was watch The Sound of Music. She’d been given a portable DVD player and my Mum had bought the special edition DVD of the movie. She’d seen it a million times, as had I, but her face lit up throughout the running time. With just her and me sitting beside her bed, where she spent the final six months of her life, we watched it together. She held my hand the whole time and told me how much she loved me. It’s a precious memory, because two weeks later she was gone. So much time has passed, but I miss her terribly every single day.
It seems the universe has lined this moment up for me, being in Salzburg where The Sound of Music was filmed on this anniversary. The only thing I intend to do in the city is the tour. And I will do so.
As the coach makes the journey to Salzburg, Morgan attempts to put the film on but the DVD won’t work because it was bought in Australia and the coding or something is different. She resigns herself to the soundtrack and not everyone is happy about this.
Italy may have been quite mild in terms of the weather, but as we cross the border into Austria, the snow becomes deep and heavy. The alps loom high into the sky and it’s clear we’re entering another world.

The hostel is a really nice one, though some people think the rooms are too small (for the record, I don’t). Every night The Sound of Music is played and a number of people plan to watch it. First, we set out into the chilly evening for the walking tour. We see Mozart’s birthplace, and several filming locations from The Sound of Music. Most of us head to Burgermeister for dinner, and a bunch of us get tickets for the tour the next day.

Cameras don’t lie. Salzburg is spectacular.

Day 15: January 8th, Salzburg

My day begins early. I don’t want to waste a moment of my time in the beautiful city. Those of us going on the Sound of Music tour get picked up outside the hostel. It’s a balmy 1 degree Celsius. I’m very grateful for my thermals and fleece lined boots.

Once on the tour bus, the guide wastes no time launching into the history of the beloved film and why people in Salzburg have, for the most part, never seen or heard of it (it’s a long story. Google it). My seatmate introduces herself as Rachel, and her accent immediately identifies her as America, and she’s with her boyfriend Tyler, who’s studying in Europe. They are, quite honestly, two of the coolest people I have ever met.

First stop is Leopoldskron Palace, the exterior of the Von Trapp house. The lake is frozen over, but one light tap from my boot is enough to shatter the delicate crystal. I sure wouldn’t want to fall in like they did in the film.
We drive past Nonnberg Abbey, which was used as the convent exterior. Hellbrun Castle contains one of the three pavilions famously used in Sixteen Going on Seventeen, and was also used as the entrance to the Von Trapp home. The guide points out the path where Julie Andrews sang I Have Confidence and asks if anyone wants to skip down said path singing the song. I don’t need to be asked twice. Tyler very kindly takes what becomes my favourite photo from the entire trip.

On the way to Wedding Church Mondsee via St. Gilgen and Lake Wolfgang, the soundtrack is played and a singalong is actively encouraged. My time to shine. I even get the bus microphone for a spell. In between the Wi-Fi dropping in and out, I manage to send a quick video back home.
Church Mondsee is a shock, since it’s much smaller than the movie would have you believe thanks to a wide-angle lens. I light a candle inside for Grandma.
We have a bit of free time so we go into a few stores. I get a fridge magnet and a bar of Eidelweiss soap, since there’s no way I can bring the flower scenes through Australian customs.
The tour ends with the stunning Mirabelle Gardens, where the famous Do-Re-Mi sequence was shot. Afterwards, Rachel and Tyler are heading to the salt mines, and we make plans to have dinner later that night at Burgermeister.

I find a place called Shakespeare Cafe for lunch. I’m not used to being asked “smoking or non-smoking?” at a restaurant, but the open doors mean that the cigarette smoke leaks in regardless, so my choice hardly matters. I have finally seen how serious my weight loss has become, and I am determined to do something about it. When my lunch arrives, I firmly tell myself that I will not leave until I’ve eaten the lot. And I manage to do it.

After doing my laundry in the hostel, I head to Burgermeister to meet Rachel and Tyler. We have a delightful evening explaining our respective countries’ slang, and laughing about a certain President.
I’m definitely visiting them when I return to the USA in 2019.

Day 16: January 9th, Vienna

Another drive day, to Vienna. This is a city I’ve read about for years.
Our first stop is at the Schonbrunn Palace. We wander around the immaculate gardens. There’s nothing like this back home.
It’s sad that we only get one night in Vienna, because it’s gorgeous. The city is too big for a walking tour, but we get driven around the streets. Past the arts university that rejected Hitler 3 times, the Prater, Hofburg Palace, Belvedere, Vienna State Opera…

I don’t go out in the afternoon because I have a bunch of self-test tapes to try and film in the darkened hostel room. But as night falls, I’m in for a real treat. We’ve been booked into seeing the Salonorchester Alt Wien–the Orchestra of Old Vienna. First, we have dinner at a beautiful restaurant and then we walk to the concert hall, Kursalon.
It’s a highlight of the trip for me. The orchestra plays Strauss and Mozart without a conductor, and there are opera singers and stunning ballet duos. Not only is the performance world-class, but the hall and even the chairs are gorgeous. I’ve never seen anything like it. Sorry Sydney Opera House.

The night reminds me, again, why I chose the arts. And I have fallen head-over-heels in love with Austria. This country is everything beautiful in the world, and for the first time in three months, I’m feeling genuinely happy.

This is the country that gave me any hope that life was going to be ok again.

 

I Have Returned

For the last year, my blog has been very quiet without any explanation to my subscribers and friends. I’ve posted very little, and very rarely. I wasn’t in any space to give notice or reasons, or to give a ballpark when or if I was going to blog again. This is all going to change right now.

Without going into all the gory details, or naming any names, in October 2017 my life fell apart in every single way. At the risk of sounding melodramatic, in just a few moments, everything I was sure of was gone. Just like that.

It’s hard when other people make bad choices. It’s hard not to blame yourself and then come to terms with the fact that you haven’t done anything wrong. Especially when people insert themselves into a situation, thinking they know the truth when they really have no idea. It’s hard when you find out you were lied to and used, for absolutely no reason.
It’s hard when people you thought were your friends, who you would have trusted with your very life, betray you in the worst way. And thanks to social media, escaping it is also next to impossible. My whole identity was brought into question, through no fault of my own.
On top of this, and really because of it, I was battling some serious health issues. Still am, even though I’m a million times better than I was.

I tried to write. But I couldn’t. I was physically incapable of doing it beyond the occasional short review, and I was too afraid to share it around like I normally would.
Writing is something very dependant on mood, emotions, headspace and personal feelings. I don’t know how on earth J.K Rowling wrote the way she did with the kind of pressure she faced.

I’m not going to sit here and pretend that everything is perfect now. It’s not. I’m still rebuilding the person I want to be. But I feel I’ve reached a point to bring this blog back, and make it better than ever on top of everything else I’m doing.

I am sorry to all my subscribers and friends who’ve missed my work. I’m truly sorry for dropping off the radar like I did.  But I had to take care of myself first and foremost, and I have plans for my blog.

What’s coming….

  1. My Wanderlust recap of my incredible solo trip to Europe will be completed by the end of the year, as I plan my next overseas adventure. Travel blogging is definitely going to be a new venture for me, but obviously the arts are my number one passion and my site will ALWAYS be about them above all.
  2. As I take on new acting projects, you can expect to be kept in the loop and brought behind the scenes.
  3. My first artist interview is coming very soon, something I am hopeful will become a semi-regular occurrence.
  4. Yes, I have many critiques, reviews, lists and analysing blogs in my backlog. And they will be released as I see fit.

It’s great to be back.

 

After Nightfall Episode 6

You ever have that moment when a series leaves you on a cliffhanger and you’re suddenly filled with an urge to see more immediately, and simultaneously throw something at the screen because how dare they leave you hanging?

Trust After Nightfall to do this to me. And trust me to love them for it.

Episode 6, the Season 1 finale is the episode where the story starts moving forward, where things are happening, plot points are being explored and small incidents are finally becoming significant.

The episode opens with an insanely clever scene which appears to be a flashback to the morning of Troy’s murder, literally the first time we hear Troy speak or see him interact with other family members, and not as a ghost. However, this quickly morphs into the realisation that it’s a dream, which usually would drive me insane, but in this case it didn’t because Colin now knows the passcode to Troy’s iPad. As I said last week, the investigators could have opened it in seconds, but what do I know? Cliffhanger #1.

At conversion camp, we see the adorable Nathan (Robert Miniter) and Yardley (Adam Haylock) get closer. These two are just….God, I love them. I have never ever shipped a couple like this. Unfortunately it can’t last, because camp leaders, Melinda and Peter, burst in and declare that “therapy” will now be increased. Cliffhanger #2.

During another drug deal, Troy’s uncle receives the video from Isobel of his girlfriend cheating with another of his cronies. If I had to hazard a guess, I’d say that’s why Isobel nicked the phone from that woman in the last episode. Of course, the police can also trace where videos come from, even if passed from phone to phone (I toured cyberbullying plays in 2016, ok? I had to do some research!) so Isobel might not get out of this one even if she is a minor. Anyway, from the look on Dave’s face, I’d say his buddy will soon have a perfectly flat surface where his face used to be. Should be fun. Cliffhanger #3.

Meanwhile, Hayden and company observe Kobie digging a hole in the woods where Troy’s body was found. This better not be going where I think it is.
Cliffhanger #4.

Meanwhile creepy Oscar breaks into Kobie’s house to retrieve Troy’s phone (by hilariously climbing through the open window…so that actually works?) only to be caught by Kobie’s mother Faye and causing her a serious injury/apparent death. Nice one there idiot. You leave a traumatised child in your wake and possibly a dead woman. Cliffhanger #5.

And finally, we return to lead investigator Simon, who is stabbed by a hooded figure. Before he dies, he chokes out “You killed Troy!” Cliffhanger #6 ends Season 1 and leaves me absolutely cheering (silently, because I was watching this at midnight).

This episode ends the season on the highest of high notes with great acting and the best use yet of cinematography, camera angles and the use of atmosphere. We have possibly two more deaths, blackmail, revenge, mystery and LGBTQ issues, but still not enough to piece together the entire mystery. Questions are being answered for sure, and action is on the verge of exploding, but the pressure cooker that is After Nightfall still wants to keep us in suspense.

We’re left hanging on for more, yet in pure satisfaction that there’ll be more great drama to dive into in Season 2. I gave up watching TV years ago, and a series has not had me hooked like this since I can’t remember when.

Hurry up Season 2. We all need to know who killed Troy.

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After Nightfall Episode 5

Episode 5 so far has been my absolute favorite. This is the episode where things got emotional. Yes, I realise that the entire time we’ve been following the mystery of a murdered child. I get that. But now, in the latest installment, things seem to have taken a turn into new territory and I am cheering from behind my Macbook screen.

The action begins as investigators question Nathan’s parents on his whereabouts. As this is my favorite storyline in the series (sorry Troy. Still love you!), I found myself silently pleading for them to realise what’s happened to him and swoop to the rescue. But for now it seems no dice. I’ve been too busy hating Nathan’s parents to really consider the possibility that they could be suspects. His father, at least, is on my list. I really hate that man. Not even sorry.

Meanwhile Hayden and his friends Grace and Xavier spot money exchanging hands and begin to suspect Oscar and Kobie (who has a gloriously hilarious intro shot looking like butter wouldn’t melt in his mouth. It has to be seen to be believed!) “That kid needs a beating” says Xavier. I couldn’t agree more.

Speaking of criminal activity, we see that along with having a secret money roll, filming people’s affairs and apparently having blackmail on her mind, Isobel also seems to have some very sticky fingers. Seriously, what is with this brat?!?

Last week, I wondered out loud if Colin had handed over the iPad to investigators. And now we discover that he has not and doesn’t plan to until he examines it himself. But he doesn’t know the password. Uh, while I fully understand the character motivation behind this, you do realise the police could open the iPad in a matter of seconds, right? Also there’s the minor issue of potentially tampering with/contaminating evidence…. *crickets* Ok then. Go for your life.

All my serial nitpicking aside, the best aspect of this scene is we finally see some real interaction between Colin and his wife Justine. This is the first time we see some of how the murder and Colin’s behaviour is affecting their marriage. I truly hope we see more of this. And if the final frame is anything to go by, I have a very strong feeling that Troy’s disabled Grandmother has a major role yet to play. Her anguished cry left me with chills. I don’t know if this particular actress has been in anything else I’ve seen, but I can’t take my eyes off her.

But now let me go to my most beloved moment in this episode and possibly the season thus far. The stunning scene between Nathan (Robert Miniter) and Yardley (Adam Haylock), another boy trapped at conversion camp. To go into too much detail about this moment here would be doing a major disservice to the series. You MUST watch it. They don’t kiss. They don’t even touch. But the warmth, intimacy and beauty of the writing and performances just leap off the screen. Robert Miniter and Adam Haylock, I take my hat off to you for your performances. Wayne Tunks has a true knack for picking the right actors to bring his work to life and to me, nowhere is it clearer than here. The proof is that I was wiping my eyes by the end.

I didn’t cry in Toy Story 3. I didn’t cry in The Lion King. I HATE The Notebook. I sat through Inside Out and didn’t shed a single tear. The bottom line is that I will only cry if a dog is involved, which is why I will never watch Marley and Me again.

Damn you Wayne Tunks. You did it. You got into my blackened soul, hardened from four years of retail work, the shattered heart I’m currently nursing and a lifetime of loving British comedy. You broke down the barriers which surround my emotions during the viewing of any media and I will likely not recover.

Damn you Wayne Tunks. And please for the love of all that’s good and holy, keep it up.

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After Nightfall Episode 4

Episode 4. Troy’s phone is still missing. Troy’s boyfriend tipped off the authorities about a drug deal by Troy’s uncle. Troy’s father Colin is apparently being haunted by his sons’ spirit. And what exactly does Kobie know? With so many subplots and mysteries piling on top of each other, it’s nice to get the hint of answers in episode 4.

And I’m sorry Troy, but so far the storyline that has me hooked to the screen is Nathan, exiled to conversion camp by his parents. This week, we meet the camp leader, Peter, played by Andrew Wang lightly snacking on the scenery, and I mean that in a very positive way. He’s so much fun to watch, but at the same time incredibly unnerving. Beneath that used car salesman smile, there’s an oily menace. I have a feeling he’s viable to explode any moment, and sooner rather than later. Whatever lies ahead for Nathan doesn’t look good.

Meanwhile on the investigation front, Troy’s laptop has been found (does that mean Colin turned over the iPad?) but his phone is still on the most wanted list. And chillingly, the sleazy book store owner Oscar is revealed to be pursuing relationships with younger boys in town, including Troy. And how do we discover this? Because resident thug Kobie is revealed to be in possession of Troy’s phone (anyone else call that? Just me?) and he has blackmail on his mind.

On the other side of the story, Hayden is visited by Troy’s uncle and brother, who make threats over his recent betrayal.  Troy’s sister seems keen to be getting into the school of blackmail too. Happy families, everyone!

We’re more than halfway through Season 1, and I feel like there’s a lot more going on and far deeper themes and character to explore. If the writing, directing and performances continue at the current rate, we’re sure to reach one hell of a conclusion, wherever that may lead. For as fascinating as the characters may be, Troy himself remains a complete enigma.

WATCH EPISODE 4 HERE

After Nightfall Episode 3

Troy McLeavey is dead. Armchair detectives may already have their suspicions, but the investigation is getting underway as Episode 3 opens.

Troy’s grief-stricken father Colin is practically catatonic, his son’s spirit having seemingly led him to his iPad, hidden in the cubby house for reasons unknown. Troy’s sister has a box of cash hidden in her room for apparently nefarious purposes. The police force begin questioning persons of interest, including resident bully Kobie, who was washing what appeared to be blood from a shirt in the first episode (which I’d like to think is a red herring because that would be an infuriatingly obvious solution), and Troy’s drug dealing uncle.

The beginnings of a darker underbelly were revealed in Episode 3. Troy’s boyfriend apparently gave a tip off about a suspect, the ever silent Viv seems to have her own suspicions, one of the investigators seems to be playing on both sides and Kobie apparently knows a lot more than he’s letting on.
However, the storyline which caused the most emotion for me is the fate of Nathan, who awakens handcuffed to a bed in a conversion camp, where his ghastly parents have banished him. The image of him literally being snatched up by masked intruders in the middle of the night may seem a bit farfetched at first viewing, but no, this is honestly what happens to a lot of “troubled” teens, especially in America. I don’t like to think about the horrors likely ahead of him, but at the same time I want to see him come out the other side. Kudos to writer/director Wayne Tunks for exploring this very taboo subject matter, and we’re only 3 episodes in.

The beauty of After Nightfall is that even though there’s a huge ensemble cast, they all feel real. We don’t know all that much about them yet, but the mystery is intriguing rather than frustrating. We aren’t in Lost territory, where the writers were just making it up as they went along. There’s a sense of purpose here, like the answers are tantalisingly close but not within grasp. Not yet anyway. There’s certainly a lot of subplots, but it’s told in such a way to never feel over saturated or pretentious. There’s no other way to put it. The writing in After Nightfall is simply masterful.

It’s a shame that episodes are only ten minutes long, but I suspect the purpose of this was to leave the viewers wanting more. In which case I say, mission freaking accomplished.

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Wanderlust Part 4: Rome to Venice

DAY 11: January 4th, Vatican City and Rome

Those of us who signed up for the Vatican City tour have to get up early. Because I have my own little cabin the shower is all mine. I call home, and to my delight my Mum is at Grandpa’s, where my aunt and uncle are visiting from Cairns. I get to have a call with four of my family members! I tell them I’m on my way to the Vatican. My staunchly Catholic grandfather tells me to say hi to Pope Francis. If I get the chance, I will.

The weather is so pleasantly mild here in Italy. I don’t even need my thermal leggings. While waiting in line to enter the Vatican, I get to know some of the girls who’ve joined the Winter Spirit tour for the Winter Rhapsody. Jess, Kerrie, Felicia and Rosie are all kinds of awesome.

The Vatican is gigantic, but very secretive and walled off in a lot of ways. It’s the world’s smallest country, with its own embassies, business dealings, post office, you name it. Our guide, Guido, tells us that some areas are so secretive even he’s never been anywhere else except where we’ll be visiting.
There’s many other tours, so each carries a distinct flag. Although I can’t help but feel a twinge of disappointment that we didn’t get the truly badass guide who is literally using a plush Batman toy as his marker. Why didn’t we get that guy?!?

At first, the tour is driving us all crazy. We have to wear earpieces to hear Guido, but for some reason we can’t hear him at all. Therefore, the tour stops so he can change microphones, and finally we can carry on.

The tour takes us through the main attractions of the Vatican, full of statues, paintings and tapestries so delicate you can’t take flash photographs or the colours will fade. Of course, what we really came to see was the Sistine Chapel. Or was that just me? Guido tells us the full history of why Michaelangelo, a sculptor who didn’t care for painting, ended up there. If you don’t know the story, I highly recommend checking it out because Michaelangelo went through absolute agony in the four years he spent painting that damn Chapel, and the least you can do is spend five minutes of your life reading about it.
Photography and cameras of all description are completely banned in the Sistine Chapel. And when I say this is enforced, I am not kidding. Should you so much as pull one out, the guys in black will blow whistles and converge on you like vultures to a corpse. I’m not about to even try that.
All that being said though, no picture could do the beauty of the Sistine Chapel justice. I’d happily stand there for hours gazing up at the masterwork.

The tour ends at the main square, I pick up some holy water for Grandpa and Felicia and Jess ask if I want to get lunch with them. We find a nice restaurant and I finally have my first taste of a real Italian pizza. And this is the moment where pizza is ruined for me forever. It’s that good.
I still can’t get over how crowded Rome is. And this is meant to be the off peak season. I shudder to think of what summer is like.

We meet up with their other travel companions, Rosie and Kerrie. For the rest of the day we explore the Pantheon, the streets, and finally Jess, Felicia and I decide we want to go see the museum of Capuchin monks (and yes, that is where the word cappuccino comes from).

We were told on the tour last night that there were skeletons inside and this was a quirky attraction. I’m not Miss Morbid, but having some bragging rights when I get home sounds good to me.
Oh my, how wrong I am.
I’m all for quirky and a bit of dark humour, but the place is decorated in a fashion that maybe Leatherface would enjoy. And by that I mean there is literally 4000 skeletons, or really, pieces of them, decorating this place. There are literally chandeliers made out of freaking bones, and other skeleton parts lining the walls in patterns and it is BEYOND creepy. Even the Haunted Mansion at Disneyland has more class than this. I hightail it out of there as soon as I can. Sheesh.

Now it’s time for my big test. Can I navigate the Rome Metro and bus all the way back to our campsite? Like the little engine that could, I think I can. And even though I have a bit of trouble going out the right exit at the train station, eventually I’m on the bus and back at the site. A quick stop at the local Coles equivalent store ensures I have snacks for tomorrow’s trip to Venice. And with that, I’m back in my little cabin, ready to have a good night’s sleep.

DAY 12: January 5th, Rome to Venice

Today’s drive has a few differences. For one, a number of people have left and a number have joined us. And we also have a different driver today. Topdeck is really strict on giving the drivers break time. Our driver is also a Venetian native.

Today includes a stop in the city of Verona, the home of Romeo and Juliet. The city has its own Colosseum, and you can’t go to Verona without a visit to Juliet’s Balcony. The statue of Juliet has been rubbed smooth by people touching the supposedly lucky breast. Do they not realise she’s mean to be 13?
In the crowded square beneath the balcony, I find a beautiful embroidery shop and have a new bag label made with my name.

It’s a long day on the coach and we arrive at the hotel on the mainland after dark. We have a hotel upgrade tonight, which is cause for momentary celebration until we realise that a few of the rooms only have double beds (Tori and I realise our room has two single beds pushed together). Also, the WiFi sucks.
On a happier note, we have the option to get our clothes professionally laundered tonight (which I don’t do, since the minimum amount is 15kg and I didn’t even pack that much) and our trips shirts, which we all had a hand in designing, are ready.
Dinner is included tonight, but it’s quite a long walk away. We now know to to add at least twenty minutes to whatever time Morgan says.

DAY 13: January 6th, Venice

As we leave the mainland for the islands of Venice, one thing is clear: your GPS will not save you. Two people move out of Venice every single day and frankly, it’s not hard to figure out why. It’s almost impossible to get around here.
Venice is made of 118 islands, connected by bridges and the only transport is either gondolas, water taxis or your own two feet. Waterlogged doesn’t even begin to cover it. The buildings are all built on wooden foundations, and every year the city sinks more. Eventually it will be totally submerged.
We get the tour, but sadly there’s a mist over Venice so thick you could hammer a nail into it. St Mark’s Square is of course, full of pigeons and then we’re shown a beautiful lace shop. The delightful ladies inside are…well, hilarious. In between explaining traditional Venetian lace, they’re cracking jokes. “Girls, you marry twice. First time for love, second time for life,”
We all adore the beautiful crafts. I decide to get Mum’s gift in here. She asked for something “beautiful”and here we are.
Mum’s always big on finding things to decorate the table with at Christmas time. They have beautiful Christmas table runners, and I know right away it’s meant for her.

After the lace shop, it’s time for the big bucket list item. The gondola ride. We sail through the canals of Venice and I marvel at the buildings, though what will happen when everything is underwater?

Kerrie, Jess, Felicia, Rosie, Lauren, Kate and I wander around for a while before taking the vaporetto to the island of Burano. It takes well over an hour to get there, but it was well worth the trip. Not only is there a leaning tower here, but the island is covered with cute coloured houses that look even more beautiful in the sunset.

It’s getting dark, so we head back towards the mainland for dinner. And this is where I have the absolute worst experience on my trip.
While the seven of us are trying to figure out where to eat, we’re approached by a friendly local woman outside a nice-looking restaurant. It seems reasonably priced, so we go in.
My six companions are all in their later twenties/thirties, while I carry the mixed blessing of a baby face. I look MUCH younger than my 25 years, even without older-looking company. In short, I’m very obviously the youngest one of us seven. Well, the three delightful waiters don’t even hesitate. They take one look at me and the sleazy remarks start. It’s making me uncomfortable, but sadly it’s not an uncommon occurrence for any woman really, so I try to ignore them.
Then things take a turn for the worse. They continue hounding me with suggestive comments. One asks me my name about five times and gets uncomfortably close, like he’s trying to kiss me. By the time they’re adding extras to our order, which we absolutely did NOT ask for, I’m not a happy girl. For example, in Europe, there’s a charge for table water. We ask for two bottles for our table. They bring seven. And it isn’t over yet.
For the rest of the night, those three morons keep on my back. I can feel them undressing me with their eyes and revelling in my awkwardness. I’m about ready to throw my wine on them. By the time the bill comes, they’ve added enough unwanted extras to bring the total to 193 Euros, when it should have been about eighty altogether. Needless to say, they will not be receiving a tip.
I’m feeling completely humiliated. We’ve been scammed, and we all know it’s not worth even trying to argue. We just want to get out ASAP. And even as we’re leaving, they yell a couple more sexist remarks at me. I may not speak Italian, but I know enough to understand what they’re saying. It’s so degrading.
When we get back to the hotel, I go up to my room and immediately burst into tears. I feel so violated, angry and demeaned. How could I have fallen for such antics? I did all the research on European scams before I came.
Unable to settle down on my own, I call home and talk to my family about what happened. They point out that I’ve gone almost two weeks without getting scammed. These guys were professionals. They knew what they were doing. My mother describes them as “grubs”.
It’s true. There really wasn’t a lot of ways to prevent this. And the fault lies with those creeps, not me.

Tomorrow, we leave Venice. And I am absolutely fine with this.